Survival of the Most Flexible – why this time doesn’t reward the strong, but the adaptable

Hello dear loved ones 🌿

I’m sitting in the shade of a children’s play area, swim shorts on, a T-shirt over it, a pool in front of me, laughter, movement, life behind me. We’ve moved on again. For six weeks we lived in our home, our finca, our villa – a place that held us. Now we’ve arrived at a beautiful resort with long swimming lanes, sauna, spa, children’s pools. A place where body, mind, and soul can breathe at the same time. And right here, in the middle of life, a very clear impulse arose: I want to share with you what is moving through me so strongly right now.

Over the past few days, I came across a podcast that rearranged something old inside me. It was about Darwin. About that famous principle we all learned in school: survival of the fittest. The strongest survive. That’s how it was taught to us, how we learned it, how it was repeated for decades. And yet, this is exactly the point: it’s not true. If only the strongest truly survived, dinosaurs would still be here 🦕 They were huge, powerful, dominant – and yet they disappeared. Strength alone did not save them.

It’s not the strongest who survive – but those who can adapt best. Survival of the most flexible.

Those who stay soft. Those who are willing to change. Those who don’t fight what’s coming, but learn to move with it. They are the ones who don’t just somehow survive, but who live a beautiful life. Already now. Not someday later.

And this is exactly where we stand as humanity 🌍 We live in a time where everything is accelerating. Systems are shifting. Old structures are dissolving. Securities that felt stable for decades are starting to crumble. And no one is exempt. No matter where you live, how old you are, how successful you are, or what you’ve done so far. These changes are real – and they are not slowing down.

This fits perfectly with what I’ve been sharing with you for months now. No one has to emigrate. No one has to start an online business. No one has to become a crypto investor. It’s not about “having to.” It’s about attitude. It’s about shaping your life in a way that movement remains possible, so that you’re not internally trapped in a system you’ve long recognized as no longer aligned.

Flexibility always begins within 🧭 In your thinking. In your willingness to let go of what’s familiar. In your openness to new paths. And yet – or perhaps precisely because of that – I often start with financial flexibility. Not because it’s the most important thing, but because it’s a key. A lever. I am convinced that every person has a responsibility toward themselves and their children to set their life up in a way that movement is possible. So that decisions don’t have to be made from fear. So that you can leave when something no longer fits, and stay when it feels right. Freedom means having choices.

And yes – that’s uncomfortable 😌 It’s not easy. We come from the old system ourselves. We know the feeling of tightness, of “having to function,” of adapting to structures that haven’t felt right for a long time. This isn’t handed to you on a silver platter. But the possibilities are there. Everything already exists. Tested. Tried. Lived. You don’t have to invent anything completely new. You’re walking new paths for yourself and your family – but you’re not the first. You’re not alone.

When we look at this energetically, it becomes even clearer ✨ We’re witnessing the beginnings of a new era. Many of you have felt this for a long time. Something feels different. Denser. Faster. More intense. This new era is open to everyone – but it’s not compatible with old ways of thinking. You can’t step through the gate into the new while clinging to the old. It simply doesn’t work.

Think of it like outdated software 💻 You can’t expect to run a modern device on Windows 95. For a while it might still sort of work. Backward compatibility. But the older the system, the bigger the gaps. At some point, there are no updates anymore. No security patches. No adjustments. And then it becomes dangerous.

That’s exactly what we’re experiencing right now – on every level. In the financial world. In work. In relationships. In education. In how we treat our bodies. And still, I see so many people saying, “The system is broken,” while at the same time leaving everything exactly as it is. The financial system is broken – yet everything stays there. The education system is broken – yet children are still sent into it. Awareness without action is self-deception.

Flexibility doesn’t just mean knowing that something no longer works. Flexibility means being willing to try something new. To engage. To make mistakes. To learn. To adjust again. That is the invitation of this time 🌱

For those who take this step, something begins that could truly be called a golden age 🌞 Not kitschy. Not detached. But very real. Things become lighter. Decisions clearer. Relationships more honest. Paths more aligned. And no – this has nothing to do with external wealth. Many people with a lot of possessions won’t make this transition because internally they’re still stuck in old patterns of control and fear. At the same time, there are people with very little external security who are willing to open up – and precisely because of that, they move through effortlessly.

Please let go of the idea that this is only for certain people. Not just for “those at the top.” Not just for the wealthy. Not just for the privileged. It’s not about status. It’s about frequency. About inner alignment. About the willingness to move with life instead of against it. And yes – when you live in alignment with these universal principles, abundance arises naturally 🌊 In all areas. Love. Health. Energy flow. Everything is connected. The universe doesn’t separate. Everything is one. Everything flows from the same source.

Wherever something isn’t flowing, that’s where you’re invited to look. Not with guilt. Not with shame. But with openness.

And now comes an important point 🕰️ We are in a phase of transformation. Much is still voluntary. You can still move at your own pace. But these windows are closing. We are approaching 2026. Major changes lie ahead. The opportunities to adapt gently, consciously, and willingly are becoming smaller. Those who switch early can shape things. Those who wait will have to react.

Just like with an operating system: you can switch early, transfer your data, test, learn – or you wait until nothing works anymore. At some point, there are no security updates left. And then you’re exposed. Vulnerable. Many ignore this because “it’s still running.” Until suddenly, it isn’t.

I see my role as standing at this door 🚪 Not as a savior. But as someone who says: “Look, here is the transition. Here are the tools. Here are the steps. You have to walk yourself. I can accompany you. I can remind you. I can share what I live.”

I’m not speaking from theory. I’m speaking from a life we are living. Together with Kathi. With our six children. With all the challenges that come with it. Not perfect. But conscious. And there are many of us walking this path.

In the end, it’s not about strength. It’s about flexibility. About adaptability. About the ability to stay soft in a constantly changing world. If you can do that, this time won’t be a downfall – but a transition 🌈 Maybe even the most beautiful one we’ve ever experienced.

Love ❤️ and Sunshine ☀️
Chris Kattoll
– Dad of the SundanceFamily –

👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 Family with 6 children
😇 Traveling the world together for 25 years
🌍 Throughout this journey, Katie and I have walked side by side in love and in service to planetary healing
💡 Visionaries, business owners, investors & pioneers
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💎 Business coaches for over 3,000 clients
📺 YouTube originals since 2008
🇨🇷 Based in Costa Rica since 2010

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